Saturday, May 31, 2008

JOJO-N-BOW WOW

I just love the words of this song. The music will make you bounce and the words will make you think.



No question just enjoy.

Later 'E'

People Pleaser or Just An Option

Have you ever had a moment in your life where you just stopped and looked at yourself and ask yourself why? Why am I so tired? Why do I run myself in the ground for others? Why do I put myself out there? Why can't I say no? Why do I make it so easy for other to take advantage of me? Why want people ever just take me as I am? Why am I always worried about the opinion of others? Why can't he love me? Why can't I find happiness? Why is joy playing hide-n-seek with me? Why? Why? Why? It is these very questions and many like it that send people into depression, into suicide, into mental breakdown. These are the very questions you never find the answer to. So I had to ask myself, Why do you want the answer to these questions, to make myself better, and then I asked but what is wrong with the you now. Well, here is my conclusion, and I do me MY CONCLUSION, PEOPLE PLEASING. OK let's back up just a bit, have you ever got that text message that says, "Never make someone a priority when you are only an option." Well think about who sent you that text are you the option in their lives. Now that's something to think about. Not just the courtship relationships but the friend relationship. You know that friend you hang around that doesn't notice you until you not there, or better yet you stand right there and because it is you they carry on fifty different conversations and just ignore you and think nothing of it because you are suppose to understand. Oh you are the person they can call for anything but the one day you have something else to do for yourself they get angry because your not there. How about that moment you get fed up and you feel the need to express yourself and at the end of the conversation you are trying to figure out how did this become your fault and of course your feelings are hurt, and you think well damn how did I get here. There are two answers to the question (a) People pleasing or (b) you are just an option. You know there is nothing wrong with options, or even people pleasing, so I guess my thing is know your place and save yourself the heart ache because believe it or not no matter what you do you will always be an option to some people and you can't please everybody.
There are a lot of whys and why nots in life and I guess you just have to pick the ones you really want to know the answer to.So the question today is, What is the why in your life and is it worth answering. That's the question I need an answer.

Later 'E'

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Make Me Better

[ CHORUS ] i`ma movement by myself but i`ma force when we're together mami im Good all by myself but baby you, you make me better. you make me better you make me better
[ VERSE 1 (loso) ] You plus me, it equals better math your boy a good look but she my better half i`m already bossing, already flossing but why have the cake if it ain`t got the sweet frosting? (ya ya ya ya) keeping me on my A-game (wha wha wha wha) without having the same names (they they they they they)they may flame -- (buh buh buh buh)but shorty we burn it up the sag in my swag. pep in my step daddy do the gucci mami intercepts guess its a "G" thinq.. whenever we swing, ima need lorretta scott if im gunna be king.
** CHORUS ** i`ma movement by myself but i`ma force when we're together mami im good all by myself
> but baby you, you make me better. you make me better you make me better
[ VERSE 2 (ne-yo) ] First things first i does what i do but everything i am, shes my improved im already boss, im already fly but if i am a star, she is the sky (ah ah ah)and when i feel like im on top (she she she)she give me reason to not stop (eh eh eh eh) and though im hot, (to to to) together we burn it up
[ Verse 3 (loso) ] the caked up cut the cleaned up ice when shorty come around, i clean up nice dynamic duo, batman & robin. whoever don't like it, its that mans problems (eh eh eh) and when i feel like im tired, (ma ma ma) mami be taken me higher (uh uh uh uh uh) im on fire, (buh buh buh) but shorty we burn it up.
** CHORUS ** i`ma movement by myself but i`ma force when we're together mami im good all by myself but baby you, you make me better. you make me better you make me better
[ ne-yo ] beside every great man, you can find a women like a soldier, holding him down
[ Verse 4 (loso) ] she treats me like a don, watchs for the hit she checks where i go, even watchs who im wit the right when im wrong, so i never slip show me how to move, thats why i never trip and babygirl you so major, they should front page ya god bless the parents who made ya middle finger anybody who hate the WAY WE BURN IT UP!
** CHORUS ** i`ma movement by myself but i`ma force when we're together mami im good all by myself but baby you, you make me better. you make me better you make me better





Need I say anything, the message is clear, crystal actually. I have listen to this song for a while now and every time, I have had the same thought. When you are a part of some one's life they should feel this way about you and vice verse you should feel this way about that person. Now here's the question are you that person and/or is that the person in your life and if not why are you there and why are they? I need an answer.

Later 'E'

Thursday, May 8, 2008

A Thought

I just had a great thought. It came and --------------------------- it went. When it returns I'll share it with you.
The questions is does this ever happen to you. You know you have this brilliant moment and two seconds later you are suffering from acute memory loss. Here's you moment express yourself.


Later 'E'